“Edith, dear, you’re a woman with a brain and reasonable ability; stop whining and find something to do!” —Violet Crawley, Dowager Countess of Grantham I’m just a tiny bit obsessed with Downton Abbey. (Really, aren’t we all?) And, as you’ve probably guessed, I absolutely love me some cranky-pants Dowager Countess—she’s just so delightfully acerbic! Are …